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Am separated from bad marriage, lived vanilla life till 18 months ago. Got interested in bdsm , really like pain like balls crushed,

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildHeavyset
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleMobile security

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit
My perfect matchA dominant lady who knows what she wants. Must be sadistic
Our first dateGetting to know each other , setting boundaries and see what happens

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isMasochist
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Electro torture, Femdom, Genital torture, Physical humiliation, Spanking, Suspension, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasLiked having genitals tied and electro tortured

Fetishes

FetishesTrampling, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a year
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Scat

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyLike to be hung by arms , nipples clamped , balls squeezed, pulled , twisted. Penis electro tortured.. Then gangbanged anally also like it filmed or in front of audience. Also would like to be public ally humiliated wearing mask.
Fantasy locationTrain, At a park, Dark alley, Dressing room, On the beach, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Kate beckinsale

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:No
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Strict teacher / Authoritarian
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:Ball busting , corporal punishment, torture. Sexual release
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Tied balls tortured. Whipped, and made to give oral release , then gangbanged anally